Monday 29 October 2012

discussing sex n the booty call

Hey guys, My grls and I decided to go out last week as they saw I was under a lot of stress and needed some cheering up. So we went and invaded Imbizo Thembisa. Wow did I have a good time. Felt really good to let my hair down and enjoy some good company. For a second there I forgot I had work stress,school stress, relationship stress need I say more? Lol but what I truly enjoyed was how the girls knew it was time for an invasion in my life due to the crying I was doing. But that's not the point here.
While sitting there and enjoying our drinks the sex topic came up. Oh my was I excited! 
Its amazing how open women are when it comes to the sex topic. We spoke of it all how to satisfy a man and still have your dignity. How to always be creative in bed and not be called a hoe. I think we forgot we we're attending a function and became ladies night. While sitting there I got to observe the surrounding. I must say most men who we're there are MBA's (married but available) who came with their side kicks or mistresses. So how does it work? Do you get called on his good days? You are just his booty call when his penis feels the urge for you? 
So when he's not in the mood for you what happens?
Friend of mine said never be another mans booty call. Cos thts all you his sex toy. You will get used but know when the sun goes down man will ditch you like yesterdays trash and run home to his family. So when you don't called or only get invitations behind closed doors. Know you are trash. 
Back to sex toys. So than friend says to us she will open up a sex shop just for us to have our own little candy shop lol. Steve harvey once said a man wants a hoe in the bedroom but a lady in public. Meaning get creative under those sheets but be his lady in public. 
A lot of women are scared to explore this chapter but it is up to them. Friend of mine said if you are someones booty call, its sex. You get called for sex and nothing else. No small talk just sex. Sad lmao. Anyhow that's all I can reveal from our girls talk. Signing off 

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