Tuesday, 9 October 2012


Hey Guys!
sitting here at my desk one of my colleagues is celebrating her and the boyfriends one year's anniversary dating. from the morning she was waiting for him to say something but he was quiet because he had something romantic planned.
After lunch time a call came in from down stairs telling her to come pick up a package. as she walked in she came in with a big bunch of flowers from him.
love makes us do the craziest things and we tend to ask ourselves what is this thing controlling my body??? we fight and say things we do not mean, but the most important part is that we have overcome it. when you love someone you have rainy days and shinny days.
there's nothing so filling as having someone you care about be the last person you speak to or first person you wake up thinking of.
it's not about who you love but how you love. if you fight in the morning with your loved one make sure you don't go to bed without patching things up as you never know when god might take that person away.
yes we all have our bad moments but if your love for someone is able to over look all the bad things than yes your love is meant to be.
accept the person you fall in love with instead of trying to change them. have time to get to know them and surprise them in ways they never thought you will.
Saying sorry is such a hard thing to do but the fact that someone has swallowed their pride and said it makes a big difference.
I would sit with my gals and listen to them talk how they are taking their men away for romantic weekends, there would be no special occasion but it is a way they find it spice up their love and show the men in their lives how loved they are.
guys don't let anger or hatred ruin love between two people but embrace it and learn to say sorry and accept those apologies.
I've lost love and it's never a great thing to go through but because we learn from our mistakes and said sorry it is up to the other person to decide whether they accept it or not.
here is a definition from shakes spear on what love is :

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.  Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.    Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love cannot be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it cannot be measured at all.   A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all
Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.  The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas every day. But love is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.
In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. 
Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars.   Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that nobody is perfect. 
Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each other's need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
William Shakespeare.

 So to those I have hurt I say sorry I will always love you.
"Too many sleepless nights thinking of you, and when I wake up my tears are running side of my cheeks ,thinking how much I want to be with you and I’m going to miss you still. Your tears make me want to change the world so that it won't hurt you anymore...
I don't have to be your first love, but I do want to be your last.
And remember this...never say I love you, if you don't really care...never talk about feelings, if they aren't really there...never touch a life, if you mean to break a heart...never say you're going to, if you don't plan to start...never look me in the eye, when all you do is lie...never say hello, if you really mean good-bye."

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