Friday, 30 November 2012




Sagittarius Woman

A Sagittarius woman lacks tact and her flat, on-the-face statements may make you feeling like running away from her. Then, suddenly, she will say something so charming that you will feel as if you are on the seventh heaven. There, you go again! You will be trapped in her charm once more. Once you have been enamoured by a Sagittarius girl, you will be staying with her for a long time. She is pleasant, friendly, outspoken and very talkative. Her forthrightness comes from the fact that she has no illusions about the world.

She sees it exactly as it is and says what she sees. At times, you may wish that she were not so honest. But then, she would be like any other girl, wouldn't she? In all probability, you will not like it. A Sagittarian female is very optimistic, but she is not irrational. She will judge the entire situation as per the facts, analyze its probable outcome and still believe that things will get better. Usually, she is very calm and composed. However, when you become rude to her or offend her, she may become like the fire-spitting dragon.

Sagittarius women are quite independent and love their freedom. They are attached to their family, but not too much. If you want to get something done from a Sagittarian female, just ask her; don't order. She will never ever do it. She is your better half and don't you dare forget that. On the other hand, she doesn't want a sissy for a husband or boyfriend. He has to be a real man, who has his ego and won't stand for nonsense. So, you will be expected to balance politeness with firmness.

I know it's difficult - but then, since when was winning someone easy. With a Sagittarius girl, you will never have to guess. She says what she thinks and how she acts shows what she feels. This bluntness may cost her heavily at times, even to the point of ending the relationship. Still, she would act as if she's not hurt at all and it is just one of the many harmless flirtations she's had. People will even believe all this, while inside she will be weeping and nursing her wounds. All this time, she will be analyzing what went wrong and when.

The word 'marriage' makes a Sagittarian female a little nervous and you will need to tempt her in order to make her settle down. She is a little hard to catch and tends to be one of the boys all the time. That doesn't mean she looks or acts like a man! In fact, she is as female as any other girl is. The society and its norms do not matter to her. She can never be the hypocrite that some people are and tend to wiggle a few tongues. Her honesty and brusqueness further add to the negative opinions.

Don't be fooled by them. Look deep inside a Sagittarius female and you will find a woman who is so enthusiastic about life and who trusts easily. In fact, this extreme belief makes her heart vulnerable and defenceless. It gets broken too often, but then, she knows how to move on with life. You will be tempted to care for her. It's natural. There are hardly any people who can resist the bright and charming disposition of a Sagittarius girl. She will not be too good with money and will most probably be on the extravagant side.

She is very sentimental and emotional, though it seems otherwise. It just that, where her feelings are concerned, she becomes too shy. After marriage, your house will always remain sparkling clean, even if you don't have a maid to do that. She cannot stand sloppiness, it doesn't appeal to her sensibilities. She may not be too good at cooking, but she will also not burn your egg every day. A Sagittarian girl may pass the most sarcastic comments when she is angry, but she will forget the resentment soon enough. Then, she won't understand why are you so upset.

As a mother, she will be very friendly with the kids. In fact, she will be more of a chum, than a mom. Only, you will have to teach them to take her bluntness with a pinch of salt. Apart from that, she will be wonderful and make them as independent as she is. She will be a lovely hostess to guests and make them feel at home. Just let her be what she is. Don't try to change her and don't curb her individuality. She will brighten your life with her optimism, boost you with loyalty, trust you blindly and shower her affection on you. She will encourage you to see dreams and help you in making them come true!

5 years ago i decided to get a tatoo for my birthday. Its my starsign. this year.........wait n see!

Monday, 26 November 2012




Two weeks ago I got introduced to a girl who reminded me of my days in first year.
A friend came to me and told me he knew this girl who is hard working and needed to do some internship.
I wasn't sure if I could teach someone the ropes of how to be a journalist because the road I took if I could change it I would. But on the other hand without those pot holes I went through I wouldn't be where I am. Emily arrived very nervous but very determined to work hard and learn.
As days went on she proved just that, very hard working. It wasn't in my job description to take an intern but I knew how hard it is to be a journalist. The many doors you knock on and get rejected. I wasn't going to do that. We travelled together every morning for two weeks and I must say I had fun. She has a smile that would lighten up any persons mood. I wish her the best towards her journey of being a journalist. It's a long road but I know she has the power to do it. She puts God first and everything else after. On my last day with her, her parents thanked me for giving their daughter such an opportunity. The small things you do mean a lot to others. So guys when someone comes knocking at your door open that door and welcome them. God never turns his back on you when you knock.
Emily good luck girl. It was a pleasure to have you. May god be with you every step of your journey and remember never to forget who you are because the world changes people. And continue to respect your parents the way I saw you do. No one will support you and be there for you even when you down like your parents and God. They will always be with you.
Stay blessed girl! Sky is the limit. This is only the beginning of great things to come.

Signing off, Boss Lady

Monday, 19 November 2012


Hi Guys,
had such a WOW weekend. Friday got surpirsed by a friend of mine who took me to go see Twilight. Im such a fan im not even ashmed to admit it. I recommend people to go see it. Wont reveal more because I would kill the story to others.
Saturday I got so sick and still sick but I shall be well. will be going to do a operation next week hope all goes well. I am very scared but i refuse to enjoy my birthday with this pain or yet enter the new year.
have a blessed week will talk after the big operation.
God Bless

Friday, 16 November 2012


One of the things i love about myfamily is that no matter how busy we are we always take time to be with eachother during the december hoildays. i wonder where the road will take us this year....


Without my granny I wouldn't even be alive. Mama turned 87 years old on the 19th August. I'm very blessed to have this women in my life. When my grandfather passed on many years ago my granny had to get a job to support her family. She went to work as a maid for many years in the suburbs. She was a single parent and managed to raise 10 children alone. Her salary was not much but look at us where we are now. Her children are successful her grandchildren are educated and we only thank God for keeping her with us all these years.
On her birthday I asked her what she wanted? She simply said just for my family to be here with me. At her age she needs love and care all the time. I make sure I call her everyday to tell her how much I love her. month end I go and buy her favourite food just to make her smile because what else can you give her when she already has it all?  
point of my story is guys please love your family despite it all. I know one day I will wake up and my gogo won't be around. I make sure i enjoy each day with her and make it a memorable one.  
Each time i visit her she tells me she wont die till she see's me married. ( Good thing that wont be happening soon which means she'l be around longer lol )

I love you gogo!
Ma Gamede wami

Tuesday, 13 November 2012

I fall but i dust myself up!

Sunday I reached out to a friend and they didn't have the time for me, they didn't care and it seemed that they were not giving a dam about what I needed. I'm a very giving person . I left it  but as soon as I heard this song it filled my heart. it's amazing how much a song can make you smile.
I might have fallen but that's not the important part , the important part is dusting yourself and keeping your head up in the  game. those who are there for you only through good times and never through hard times are ones you should always question Amanda would always say to me. lol anyhow I speak my mind , don't hold my grudges or heart because that will make one old and dam I'm too fine for getting old!

Living Years lyrics

Every generation blames the one before
And all of their frustrations
Come beating on your door
I know that I'm a prisoner
To all my father held so dear
I know that I'm a hostage
To all his hopes and fears
I just wish I could have told him
In the living years
More crumpled bits of paper
Filled with imperfect thought
Stilted conversations
I'm afraid that's all we've got
You say you just don't see it
He says it's perfect sense
You just can't get agreement
In this present tense
We all talk a different language
Talking in defence
Say it loud
Say it clear
You can listen as well as you hear
It's too late when we die
To admit we don't see eye to eye
[ From : ]
So we open up a quarrel
Between the present and the past
We only sacrifice the future
It's the bitterness that lasts
So don't yield to the fortunes
You sometimes see as fate
It may have a new perspective
On a different day
And if you don't give up
And don't give in
You may just be O.K.
I wasn't there that morning
When my father passed away
I didn't get to tell him
All the things I had to say
I think I caught his spirit
Later that same year
I'm sure I heard his echo
In my baby's new born tears
I just wish I could have told him
In the living years

Heart Attack lyrics
ohhhhh ohhhhh
We share, somethin' so common, still so rare,
and I'm in awe, never been here before,
so high, we're still climbing,
even here inside these walls,
breaking each others hearts,
and we don't care 'cause we're so,
in too deep can't think about givin' it up,
but i never knew love, would feel like a heart attack,
it's killing me, swear i never cried so much,
'cause i never knew love, would hurt this fucking bad,
worst pain that i ever had, Ohhhhh
never knew love, would hurt this fucking bad,
worst pain that i ever had,
All the times when i know i should be smilin',
seem to be the time, that i frowned the most,
can't believe that we're still survivin',
'cause I'm slowly breakin' down,
even when i hold you close,
And if i lose you,
I'm afraid i would lose who,
who i gave my love to,
that's the reason i stay around,

even though i fell way,
[| From: |]
in too deep can't think about givin' it up,
but i never knew love, would feel like a heart attack,
it's killing me, swear i never cried so much,
'cause i never knew love, would hurt this fucking bad,
worst pain that i ever had, Ohhhhhh
never knew love, would hurt this fucking bad,
worst pain that i ever had,
and it hurts, cause i wanna leave,
and you wanna leave,
but the love keeps us together,
And if i lose you,
I'm afraid i would lose who,
who i gave my love to,
that's the reason i stay around,
even though i fell way,
in too deep can't think about givin' it up, oh
but i never knew love, would feel like a heart attack,
it's killing me, swear i never cried so much,
'cause i never knew love, would hurt this fucking bad,
worst pain that i ever had, Ohhhhh
never knew love, would hurt this fucking bad,
worst pain that i ever had

penny for my thoughts!

two weeks till the boss lady turn 24years old....
at the age of 24 I have a beautiful baby girl, I am copy editor of one of South Africa's top selling magazines, I have completed my schooling and have moving out of home.
it's been a fucken long road( excuse my French ) but really it has. I have lost and gained friends but all I have kept my faith high and my god keeps blessing me.
not sure what my plans for my birthday are but I plan on having loads of fun. I reflect on the past year and thank god for blessing me with another number to add on to my years on earth.
can't believe just yesterday I was daddy's little girl and now I'm all grown up.
this year god showed me wonders and we all know when god shows up he shows off!
before I know it I will be 30 soon ,lol
so anyway this week at work there is an intern who wanted to come see the kind of work I do. wasn't so keen on doing it but I'm not the kind of person who is selfish so I took her in.
she's arrived here so shy and scared reminded me of my first day of being an intern.
I'm teaching as much as I can but the end of the day it is up to her to what she makes of life.
help others because you never know when you might as well need help.
next year I plan on buying my dream car. if you dream it , than it will happen. merc here I come.
I dream and set goals for myself because I see it as a way to guide me. I dream big but I work my ass off as well.
life does not stop at 21 but it begins at 21. to those who think they will not make it , it's all in the mind. let your haters hate because they will be at the bottom and you will be at the top saying fuckers I told you so. lol anyhow guys that's just me.
enjoy your day.


when I first came to Bona magazine I didn't know what was my reason for coming here but I am blessed to have such a wonderful family.
I met 5 wonderful girls who have brought joy to me . come rain or sunshine they are always there for you and will never judge you for what you are. we come from worlds apart but god has brought us together.
You may meet a person and instantly know that you will be best friends forever. Other friendships develop over an extended period of time. In some friendships you may feel a sense of equality, while in others there may be a clear sense that one is giving more to the friendship then the other. There are no rules about how a friendship has to be. If you are able to share your life with another human being, by all means go right ahead. All friendships are unique and special in their own way. Each one is valuable.




Will You Ever

I don't think you will
Ever fully understand
How you've touched my life and made me who I am
I don't think you could ever know
Just how truly special you are
That even on the darkest nights
You are my brightest star
You've allowed me to experience something very hard to find
Unconditional love that exists
In my body soul and mind
I don't think you could ever feel
All the love I have to give
And I'm sure you'll never realize
You've been my will to live
You are an amazing person
And without you I don't know where I'd be
Having you in my life
Completes and fulfills every part of me.

Our Friendship

© Marcia M. Griffith
As I think of our friendship, I begin to see
Mere words can't describe what you mean to me.
When this cold, hard world has me lonesome and blue
I look up to see my angel, my sweet angel, you.

You dry the tears that fall from my eyes.
You bring me sunshine to brighten my sky.
You rescue me when I'm scared and alone
And take my hand to lead me home.

No matter the miles that keep us apart
We're always together in each other's hearts
Sometimes we take for granted, I fear,
The ones who are so close and dear.

We get so caught up in life and things we must do
Sometimes we forget to stop and say I love you.
If ever you felt I forgot or didn't care
Let me stop right now, my true feelings I'll share.

You're the sun in my sky, the bed where I lie.
You're the home where I'm safe, the field where I play.
You're everything I am, everything I do.
So what I am saying is I LOVE YOU!
Where ever our roads might take us I pray that God will continue to guide you and keep the friendship we have!


So it's the end of exams and I thought life would get less stressful but I've realised that as 1 grows the more responsibility one takes one. I'll be growing a year older in two weeks to come and I must say its shit exciting but scary.
Decided to go to church today. We had holy communion. Although I don't know we're tomorrow will take me but my god has already set out my journey.
I'm grateful for the downfalls I've had in my life because it makes it shows the devil that yes my God does live.
The power of God is greater than your problems.
We all have our own problems in life but that is why we are there. To learn and strengthen ourselves. If a person comes to you and asks for your help never turn your back on them because God has never turned his back on you. Take time to assist those who need help because you never know when the tables will turn.
Don't play with the blessings you are given. There are homes we're they do not know we're they will get their next meal. There will come a time we're the world will turn will turn their backs on you. Even the ones you love. But remember this God will never forsake you or turn his back on you. When the lord saw his people he said to them peace be with you. Deuteronomy 16 speaks of how people should give according to the blessings of the lord your god has given you.
I may not know the troubles you go through, I may not know the hurdles you have faced , I may not the nights you have cried asking for help but no human had time for you , I may not the many prayers you have said but because the lord has always been there you we're able to pass and conquer it all.
Those are the words I received today at church from our priest. Felt like he was talking to me but we all have our days we're we need god n one another. Happy Sunday guys.