Wednesday, 12 December 2012


Change is always the hardest things we have to do but the fact remains it has to start with you.
2012 is coming to an end. Some might be happy its ending some are stressed things didn't go as planned. We have lost loved ones but gained new love as well.
I have been blessed and thank my lord for the things but some I haven't been.
Some day at church I asked God why a certain situation in my life was occurring? I was conFused and hurt , needed answers to a point we're I cried. The following day while reading my bible I remembered that in order for things to change you must change yourself first.  God never changes and He is the same today as he was in the past and will be in the future. People do change though and God calls us to repent and change of our ways. Whatever we experience in life and through life changes we are to do for God who gives us the strength and courage to carry out His plans in our lives.

I have often heard it said that the only easy way to deal with change is when you are the one doing the change. Truth be told, many times we are not in control of the change and therefore we find it hard to adjust.
Change is real and necessary. For salvation we must change our mind (repent) and agree that God’s way is better than our way. For Spiritual maturity we allow the Holy Spirit to change us as it is written: “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed [changed] by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” (Romans 12:2 KJV).

here are some quotes;

If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.
Maya Angelou
Attitude, Change your thoughts and you change your world.
Norman Vincent Peale

Change, Thoughts Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.
Nelson Mandela
Change, Powerful, Education Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.
John F. Kennedy

Change, Future, Past God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Reinhold Niebuhr
God, Courage, Change does not roll in on the wheels of inevitability, but comes through continuous struggle. And so we must straighten our backs and work for our freedom. A man can't ride you unless your back is bent.
Martin Luther King, Jr.

Freedom, Change, Must Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.
Barack Obama
Waiting, Change, Person You must be the change you wish to see in the world.
Mahatma Gandhi

Change, Must, Wish Change your life today. Don't gamble on the future, act now, without delay.
Simone de Beauvoir

Today, Change, Future For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: 'If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has been 'No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Steve Jobs

Change, Ever, Doubt If you accept the expectations of others, especially negative ones, then you never will change the outcome.
Michael Jordan

Change, Others, Negative A small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has.
Margaret Mead

Change, Ever, Small Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.
Harriet Tubman

Strength, Patience, Change I don't need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better.

Change, Better, Friend I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people.
John Lennon

Change, Live, Feel All great change in America begins at the dinner table.
Ronald Reagan

Change, America, Begins Action and reaction, ebb and flow, trial and error, change - this is the rhythm of living. Out of our over-confidence, fear; out of our fear, clearer vision, fresh hope. And out of hope, progress.
Bruce Barton

Hope, Change, Fear Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.
Arnold Bennett

Change, Better, Drawbacks A fanatic is one who can't change his mind and won't change the subject.
Winston Churchill

Change, Mind, Won If the facts don't fit the theory, change the facts.
Albert Einstein
Change, Facts, Theory If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.
Lao Tzu

Change, End, May If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
Wayne Dyer
Change, Look  What we achieve inwardly will change outer reality.

Change, Reality, Achieve When you forgive, you in no way change the past - but you sure do change the future.
Bernard Meltzer

Change, Strong, Too It's time to fundamentally change the way that we do business in Washington. To help build a new foundation for the 21st century, we need to reform our government so that it is more efficient, more transparent, and more creative. That will demand new thinking and a new sense of responsibility for every dollar that is spent.
Barack Obama

Change, New, Help It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.
Charles Darwin


Tuesday, 4 December 2012


Thank you Dad

A great many thanks for all you have done
Without you my life would not have begun
You have been there when I most needed you
You have helped to guide me my whole life through
We have shared both the good times and the bad
But most of all, thank you for being my dad
I love you

To The Best Father Ever

To the best Father ever
We your children stand
Forever by Your side now
And wish to lend our hand

Though we fall far short most times
Of Your expectations
You pick us up and dust us off
Then show us Your creations

While we slip and fall along
You have set The Way
With the path that we should follow
Each and every day

And so it is our Dear Father
We wish to thank You so
For being there when needed
Helping us to grow

With Love,
Your children



Monday, 3 December 2012

The Serenity Prayer

The Serenity Prayer
Path God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
--Reinhold Niebuhr
In loving memory of
Fr Bertram Griffin -- 1932-2000
Requiescat in Pace
Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will direct your paths.
Proverbs 3, 5-6


Morning guys,
Monday again but the year is nearly over, just need to hang in there. My birthday was yesterday and dam did I have the best weekend. My Friday started off with me going to work. My girls and I usually go out for drinks on Fridays and unwind . This Friday was different. The girls threw me a surprise birthday party. I was so blown away because I was not expecting much but it really lightened up my mood.

They took me to a wonderful place in Main Str. were they served African dishes from all over African. We really enjoyed ourselves. I was finished (drunk) because of the many toasts that were made. The messages they told me made me very teary. I love you girls with my all. Only now do I realise that the little things I do mean a lot but I never realise that.

 I was taught how to play drumbs here lol

 and the drinks kept coming.....

 fantastic African food....yummy

From there we partied the night away.
Sunday 00;00am the messages started flocking in, lol . I didn't realise how much love I have from the people I know and those close to me. my face book page kept sending me messages that friends have sent me wishes. thank you so much for the love guys. The gifts were amazing . shows that people take time to get to know me and when buying me gifts they get exactly what the doctor ordered.
One of my best friend wrote me a love letter lol :
Gonna write u a love goes:) .......................................................................................................

U are one crazy chick!:D No but seriously, you are theeee best, a kind soul O:)   , a Diva ;;), A yummy mommy :p (now I know how to love my kid and look fabulous while doing it), A great lover  <3 (Pity some assholes don't/didn't appreciate it 8-|, Wonderful daughter :) (Makes me wanna reach out to my own mom everyday :( ), Ur a Fantastic friendB) one BIG ball of Fun and happiness, till today I thank God that he brought u in my life for a purpose, coz U helped and introduced me to the media,  B) :) now I can look forward to building my career thanks to u! My friend I don't have an expensive gift, but the respect and love I have 4 u is big and the way I cherish U even bigger!<3, brings me too much joy to wish u a Happy Birthday, A BIG kiss:* to your mom and dad, with their relationship came a wonderful being, they r rock stars  !:DB) (y), I'd stay on this phone 4 years if I wanna say everything that's in my heart! Look ur the best and may u have a blessed Birthday and Pray to God O:) to keep those blessings pouring in u deserve the best in lyf, continue Worshiping Him, :) I love u friend have a Jol today<=-P  \=D/ and May God lead Ur feet to greatness,happiness,Love and success!({})......................................... *beer* *beer* Cheers Birthday gal ;)
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device
this message made me cry. I sat there for a minute and cried because of this letter. thank you Ntokozo.

Now my mom is not much of a sms person but when I woke up and saw she sent me this message I was touched. Thank you mom for bringing me into this world, for teaching me to speak my mind and never think little of myself. oh...and the birthday gifts. you my rock !

than my sista inlaw gave me a laugh when she sent me this messsge with my nieces singing happy birthday to me, thank family lmfao .

Sunday my parents gave me my gifts than took  me out for supper.
 My daughter kept singing happy birthday

 By the time it was time to go home my dad and i were doing the one two step from all the shooters we doing. lol gotta love my daddy.

 Here we were sipping on some vodka and gin ......... not my dads favourite lol

Mandy, Nelly, Phila thank you my angels for going out of your way to making the weekend the best. i love you guys may God strengthen our friendship because we are going far.
ntokozo and mpumi you have always been there together every step of journey. you put up with my bluntness and have always been greatful. i love you family. When i cry we cry together when we laugh we laguh together.
mom and dad I know raising me has not been always great but your unconditional love has made me the beautiful soul I am today. thank you for your teachings and reminding me that I am a beautiful flower. boNgwane Mtiyane Sogodi ngiyabonga!
and God thank you ! your love for me has never ended .
Dear God,
It's me again...I am so far from where I could have been
Dear God, I would be incomplete
But you came and touched my life in time of need
So I'm thanking you for all you've done
And for sacrificing your only son
That's why I'm writing you this letter
To let you know that I love you
Thank you for all that I am and for being a friend
Lord, my love for you'll never end

Dear God,
I'm so grateful for the way you've changed my life
I'd give all I have, I'd just throw it all away
For a chance to walk with you through heaven's gates
That's why I'm thanking you for your love and your grace
I don't deserve these blessings that you give to me

Dear God,
As a humble women I come to you like a child
Needing your knowledge, your love, and your guidance Lord
Thank you for trusting me with my own life's decisions
But I'm just a women, and I don't deserve this incredible life that you've given me
I love you Lord, I love you

Dear God, I'm so sorry, so sorry for living for me
But I promise from this day on I'm livin' for you
'Cause without you my life means nothing

Have a great week!
signing off: Boss Lady