GOODBYE MEDIA WORLD

Good morning guys,
Just yesterday I was celebrating being Copy Editor but today my life has taken me up another level. After serving 6 years in the media world as journalist and copy editor it has come to a stand still. I have left that world and being offered a new position at another company.
Its very exciting and I must say I am looking forward to it. God has a way of showing up and giving you blessing you never thought.
My journey starts on the 18 march and its so exciting. Heading up the Communication world and all that comes with it.
I cant say much right now but as I start I will keep you posted.

Signing off;

Boss Lady

MY JOURNEY THROUGH LOVE

Hey Guys,

I know I have not been around. I have been running low trying to get some work done, life drill you know. But it's been good, I must say I have been very lazy to do anything but on the other hand what else can I do. On my love life side I must say I have been having a time of my life with my Sithole. He has been nothing but amazing and I guess that is why  I have been in hiding.

Now my partner and I are ages apart but somehow our lives are able to come together to be one. To think when I met him I was nowhere near to liking him lol lol . I have grown to love and understand him and he has grown to loosen up and ad live a little.

When I met him  I wasn't planning to fall in love. I wasn't even looking for a new best friend. He came and changed  all that. The attraction was electric and unexpected. He came into my world and turned it upside down. Our timing was lousy, but the connection was impossible to ignore. Our logical minds attempted to take control, but never had a chance.

I trust you and you always told me that you "trust me, and more!". You are the first person that showed the 'real' me to, and you appreciate me for me. In the short time we are together, you found out more about me than I had ever let anyone else know. We share and so much, yet there was still so much to learn. I knew so much about you, and then again, so little.
I love your smile, I love your eyes, but most of all I fell in love with the person inside all of that. You make me laugh. You make me laugh a lot! You totally cracked me up. You also make me cry, and I hate that. Most of all, you make me feel alive. You are "the one". I love you.  

I walk into work sometimes very tired but with a smile on my face because I know I spend my evenings laughing with the one I love. A lot happens in such a short time but for now I am very  happy and wherever our road takes him and I, I'm ready for it every step of the way.

So God.....If he is the one please help me and keep us safe. I know there is no such thing as having a perfect man but to me because he has his flaws he is everyway perfect and completes my universe.

Stop waiting for your prince charming ladies, get up and go find him and don't go to someone who you know will only complete you half and not the whole of you.

Anyhow this is me in love talking .....

signing off;

BOSS LADY

GODMOTHER

I am officially a Godmother. congratulations to my beste ntosh and her man on their new born Mohau. he is very big but most important a blessing from God.

kodak moment

good times with my man and daughter

lent.

Hi Guys
Happy lent. South Africa has been making headlines lately. First with the rape and now Oscar Pistorius killing his girlfriend on Valentines day.
I don't have much to comment on the issues. Firstly no man has the right to rape. That is bull for someone to think women enjoy being penetrated without their concerns.
By me wearing my mini skirt I am not calling rape for myself. I am suppose to be living in a country where I am free to voice my opinions and be who ever but women are living in fear because men are finding it hard to keep their penises away.
I hope the world can move and learn from this pain that people are going through. Next is Oscar I have no words because the only people who were there were Reeve and Oscar so who am I to judge? Who are we to point fingers and say things happened yet we were not all there. I hope justice is done in the correct way and people find peace and comfort.
Its the time for Lent where we fast and pray for 40days. I have started my journey and It was hard at first but heck I am proud of myself. Only my God knows what I am giving up. So guys things are happening around us and we don't stop and observe. Its time to stop pointing and start praying. May we all find peace and forgiveness during this time. Prayer changes guys. Trust your lord and he will show you miracles.

LOVE HAS FOUND ME!

We took this picture of our hands to remind us that when things get tough we just need to hold onto each other. 

Last year I asked myself if I was ready for love? I can finally say yes I am!

I have meet the most amazing man who has showed me that love does finally to around. I feel like a little girl who experiencing her first crush. He's a man born and raised in PMB. When I wake up every morning I smile and thank god for blessing my life with so much love and happiness.

First thing I remember asking him was are you married? To my reply he said NO! (happy dance)

when I asked why he explained to me which was very comforting to meet someone who has no luggage that I can say he's mine and not have to worry about another women being all psycho ( lol )  

It's not every day where you find romantic notes telling you how much your an amazing women. I look forward to my tomorrows because he's always talking about ours. I'm learning to enjoy every day as it comes, open my heart and speak my emotions.

We find ourselves talking everyday till the early hours of the morning and not realising the time. He appreciates me and my bluntness, never did I think a man would like me for me being so honest.

As a single mom it is very hard to get into a relationship because although you want to love the first person you think about is your child.

I was honest with him from day 1 what I wanted and that I have a child. I was not going to wait three months into the relationship to ask him what he wanted I needed to know there and then. I'm pleased to say we are both on the same page for our tomorrows. He's not perfect but neither am I. We fight like any couple but we make up and have a friendship that can handle any hurdle.

He loves Ntokozo. At first I found it weird whenever he called he would want to speak to her. But I guess one man's trash is another man's treasure.  

He is a loving father because he has a  daughter of his own.  

Well that is a great start to me 2013 It looks like this year things are looking great!

stay blessed guys! 

good morning guys!

Hi Guys,
Can I get an amen January is finally over!!!! As we all adjust back to the likes of life I do hope everyone has been living up to their goals of 2013. I have been trying *hides* lol .
Must say I have been living each day as it come. although there has been some hiccups but guess what ? I'm still alive!
I recently came across a comment on my blog from someone who showed me that there are people who take time to read other peoples blogs. Must say it truly gave me hope as a journalist that technology has not really won this race because we as human have depended so much on technology that we forget to look up and find friends and communicate with people across the globe.
Back to what has been happening to me , I'm pleased to say that my daughter has been potty trained and no more nappies. it felt like a proud moment for me. like really she is growing up. Her dad has been granted access to see her now by my family which im pleased because there is some sort of respect between us now and i feel happy that i don't have to stress everyday about my daughter.
on my love life that all i have to say is wait and see there will be something soon to shock you bloggers ( laughs)


have a great day!