tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post4765447735231705113..comments2023-10-26T02:37:57.417-07:00Comments on DIARY OF MY LIFE.......: IMBELEKOBOSS LADYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18402276125408546299noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-64100406375225033522019-11-10T12:34:32.719-08:002019-11-10T12:34:32.719-08:00Anonymous, lengane okukhulunywa ngayo ngabe unina ...Anonymous, lengane okukhulunywa ngayo ngabe unina wayo washada waze wagcagca noyise walengane? If yes, then ukubikwa kwengane kungenziwa emndenini kayise wengane. If no, then ingane kumele ibikwe komalume wayo ingane yenzelwa unina wayo. If mhlampe imbeleko iyafuneka ngoba ingane igula, noma unina eganene noyise, leyombeleko yenziwa komalume. Hope u answered Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00171388509130637411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-82413230860169268482019-11-10T12:30:07.794-08:002019-11-10T12:30:07.794-08:00Hello Sipho, I take it that you were born out of w...Hello Sipho, I take it that you were born out of wedlock? In that case your mothers side of the family had to do imbeleko for you. You belong komalume in the Zulu culture because your mother and father abagcagcanga, so your father has no say over you and you have to use your mothers/ uncles surname not your fathers surname. Hope this helps.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00171388509130637411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-1269575713743679052019-10-28T04:31:48.839-07:002019-10-28T04:31:48.839-07:00nami ngiyafisa ukwazi ubani okumele engenzele ngob...nami ngiyafisa ukwazi ubani okumele engenzele ngoba ubaba esasishiya emhlabeni ngasemndenini wakwababaSweatySanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12101390742143847807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-68675952512872147972019-05-20T02:26:47.494-07:002019-05-20T02:26:47.494-07:00Ngubani emndenini okumele enzele ingane kamfowabo ...Ngubani emndenini okumele enzele ingane kamfowabo imbeleko?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-1950896563509411652019-05-14T09:22:25.788-07:002019-05-14T09:22:25.788-07:00Wow!!!This is amazing thank you for sharing such s...Wow!!!This is amazing thank you for sharing such scarce knowledge with us. I have always been confused about this ceremony. I even thought it depended on the kind of family one comes from in order for it to be done. Thanks a lot. Ndlovukazi_Ningiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15575185206446787983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-14496341203652030962019-04-11T13:56:16.733-07:002019-04-11T13:56:16.733-07:00SSAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11418744350226333765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-48862890062730872652019-03-22T01:39:50.381-07:002019-03-22T01:39:50.381-07:00mina I'm 42 years old and hve been struggling ...mina I'm 42 years old and hve been struggling to make ends meet since I didnt know my father from birth and the truth is That ukubikwa thing has haunted me ever since.Ask me about how you cannot progress without doing that ritual especially when your ancestors know they have a baby.Siphohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02172778378428454489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-89423858467330826872018-01-29T03:41:47.977-08:002018-01-29T03:41:47.977-08:00I would really love to get in touch with you, for ...I would really love to get in touch with you, for the lack of knowledge of our traditions I have more questions then answers. phewabb@gmail.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02002516923050736009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-69877342849858448832017-12-11T01:16:31.233-08:002017-12-11T01:16:31.233-08:00Thanks for sharing your story with us. I have lear...Thanks for sharing your story with us. I have learnt something today. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12706497571057064340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668612851810227914.post-90557148191532088922012-07-03T01:31:55.847-07:002012-07-03T01:31:55.847-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Solomonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05760244029863167557noreply@blogger.com